I don't know if this was spurred by a particular incident or is just a general cri de coeur, but it made me smile ruefully (try not to picture it). I find it quite believable, and think it may happen to you more than to others because you tend to assume that the people reading your words are intelligent, fair-minded, careful readers, when they may be fewer than three of these things, and quite possibly none. Hence you may not ask in advance, "How might this be misconstrued or twisted by someone reading inattentively or maliciously?" and may omit a pre-emptive clarification that, while dialectically redundant, would still earn its rhetorical keep.